Yo, get out of your head and believe in yourself.
Happy Fall Everyone! If you are reading this tonight on September 22 it is now the fall season. That means back to the nice cozy hoodie season weather. Outside of Spring, Fall is my second favorite season. Whats yours? Yo, its really crazy that October will be here just in a week like time is really flying.
I know, I know a lot of people don’t like the fourth quarter much or the seasons changing to the colder months including me because it is just rough all in all for people mentally and emotionally especially. So, first I want to say that YOU GOT THIS and everything is going to be okay I promise. With all that being said, I will say that I have been the battle of always being in my head so much about everything. I think being in my head just comes from me having bad anxiety and just ovethinking everything I do which sucks. I mean, I be overthinking about work, my UI/UX designer skills, my art, and even things with my blog. It is all a challenge to be focused and stay consisent with anythign while trying to not overthink whatever is on your mind. The most recent thing I was overthinking about was getting back to writing on my blog and how to write the comback post in the “right way” — what I had found though going through the overthinking process for getting back to blog writing was that it is no format or blueprint on getting back to things that bring you enjoyment because if you truly love something you are going to keep up with it no matter how hard or many times you try it over. If you know me, you know this blog is like my safe space to where I can express myself about anything and be able to put it out in the public for others to read and learn about me or be able to take something from my post that they can connect to. Stepping more into this jounrey of doing things of what I love and just following my heart with more things that give me joy I have been able to learn how to just let more things flow though and make sure I have the confidence in anything I want to do no matter what it is just like how my grandma use to say to me all the time. Confidence is truly key and I have really learned that the hard way because without confidence then what’s the point? I know it is more easier said than done but I have learned that finding different ways that work for you to relax you through whatever you are currently overthinking is key as well like music, meditation, daily motivation mantras to help you keep going or even just talking it out with a friend sometimes helps as well (these are just examples that I have found that has helped me along the way). Building more confidence in my blog over the last couple of months has helped me understand that things are never perfect and as long as you like it then that is all that matters. Always remember confidence can help you grow with anything in life that you want to get better at or put your mind to it. As the title reads, Yo get out of your head and believe in yourself!
Peace yall,
Tay 💛✍🏾
Blog Songs:
Coi Leray ft. H.E.R: Overthinking
Deemi: Soundtrack Of My Life
Lauryn Hill: Everything is Everything
Ne-Yo ft. Memphis Bleek: Miss Independent Remix